Why I save e-mails.
To: Louise <president@whitehouse.gov>
Sent: Sun, 30 Sep 2018 12:49:14 -0500
Subject: Why I save e-mails.
Not necessarily so much for what I've had to say, but for what Melba and my kids have had to say. Scott, in particular, has written some very informative and interesting e-mails. I got into an e-mail argument with a reporter several years ago. After exchanging several e-mails with her, I asked Scott to write a response to her silliness for me. It's part of this e-mail.
To: Mary Beth <president@whitehouse.gov>
Sent: Tue, 4 Aug 2009 17:19:26 -0600
Subject: Not quite spent yet.
What's below the line is also by Scott, except for the lead-in. For a while, I held my own in a battle with one Holly J. Fackler, an Ohio journalist. When I found it was taking too much effort (Lacking stamina, I was running out of steam.), I brought in Scott for the coup de grâce.
Listen to www.tinyurl.com/lqh7lh to hear how the French pronounce coup de grâce, not quite the way we said it back in Marshall. If you haven't heard it pronounced "correctly," as Jim would claim, you might be surprised. I'll test Mr. Drumsticks later and see if he comes close. He's good at foreign pronunciations, but I think I might catch him on this one. I still enjoy one-upping him.
Here's the last thing I wrote to the blog Friday before I decided it was time to take a break from complaining and whining.
I told Jim again today that I don't want him feeling sorry for me. That he would come in second best yet again, like he usually did when it came to horseshoes, ping pong, [poker,] and pool. … And girls. Yeh, that's the ticket. Girls, too. I've had so much practice feeling sorry for myself he can't even come close.
"I apologize for writing a long letter. I didn't have time to write a short one." -- Blaise Pascal.
Yes, I cribbed from myself for the nth time when I brought up the Pascal quotation.
“Most of life falls in the ambiguous category," said Fackler. Not for me it doesn't. What she said barely qualifies as something that should emanate from a sentient being. Remember my saying, "No one has to tell you when it's right"? If what you're looking for is ambiguity or uncertainty, you can certainly find it. But if you believe, as I do, that there's usually a right answer, you're more likely to come up with it. Just don't jump the gun on what the right answer's going to be: Work it out. Her output is the result of the semi-functioning brains I associate with polyps, possibly as high up the food chain as goldfish. Feelers, not thinkers; perceivers, not judgers.
The problem? Such folk don't look at the evidence and the facts objectively. Being objective is too much work for them. After all, if you carry out genuine investigations, research, and analysis, you may learn that your foregone conclusions were wrong. Much easier to go in with preconceived notions and look for support for those notions, ignoring evidence to the contrary. What I see are journalists made of the same stuff liberal Supreme Court Justices are made of: that's not the stuff dreams are made of.
What's your Myers-Briggs preferred mode of thinking? I'm an INTJ myself, and glad to be one. If you've never gone through an exercise to determine what your Myers-Briggs personality type is, there are plenty of places you can do it online. Just Google «Myers-Briggs Personality Type Indicator» and Bob's yer uncle. You don't seem to me to be someone who would turn out to be an FP: a feeler-perceiver. I'd almost be astonished if you turned out to be a P rather than a J. FJ is all right with me; so is TP. It seems to be mostly the FPs who see the world so different from the way I see it that we have trouble getting along. If you turn out to be an FP, I suppose I've stepped into it, haven't I? Ah, well, I'll just blame it on a lack of sleep again.
OK, what did you major in? Was it Arkansas College that you were graduated from? (Remember how the word graduate was used when we grew up? We didn't graduate, we were graduated. And we most assuredly didn't "graduate Marshall High School," the way I hear it said a lot.) Did you get married after you finished college? How did you and Gerald meet? … To use the old Lothario's line, Tell me about yourself." You can skip height and weight and measurements -- I've pretty well finally outgrown those.
Jim told me his petite wife introduced herself at a formal military ball this way: "I'm CP. I'm taller than you." I don't know if you remember what Mr. Matthews said when he introduced himself: "My name is Dolan Matthews. I suppose you know yours." My variant of what CP said might go something like this: "I'm Mike. I'm balder than you are. I'm shorter than you are. I'm older than you are. I'm fatter…."
When I stopped by Braum's (ice cream parlor, basically) to get Melba a milkshake Friday, I asked if they had milkshakes for a milkshake diet -- that I wanted to lose about 50 pounds in 90 days with eating milkshakes being the secret. I think they must have run out of that kind of milkshake the day before. The one I got for myself was the richest I've ever had in my life.
Regards,
Mike
«Later»
I talked to Jim right after I left my Mike's happy message for you this morning. He came suprisingly close to proununcing coup de grâce the way the French do. Coodiegrahs is how I hear it. The only noticeable difference to my untrained ear was that he didn't sound as if he smushed the three components together. He ended with an s-sound, one of the keys to the "correct" French pronunciation.
Jim said he's going to fire up his computer, meaning he's going to start using the Internet again. I think your conversation with him on his birthday might have led to his decision. Exchanging a few e-mails isn't going to hurt him. I hope he follows through and doesn't change his mind. (I won't have to print out so much stuff to send to him. I bought a new printer for that express purpose.)
Melba seems to be doing considerably better, but she thinks Dr. Schiller plans to keep her in the hospital another two or three days. (She'll be starting her second round of chemotherapy about the time I'm expecting her to get out.) She went back on solid food at breakfast this morning. Dr. Schiller is having her drink Coca Cola to help digest the bezoar remaining in her stomach. He had read a magazine article saying the bubbles helped aid its digestion. She said he seemed quite pleased with himself for finding that. He was also pleased when she told him I had praised him to high heaven over at UAMS, which is where he went to medical school or interned about 20 years ago. That might have been a bit of an exaggeration, but I definitely told them he was the best diagnostician I've ever encountered.
I left Melba's room when an occupational therapist came in to help her shower and wash her hair.
I had been reading Bukowski to her. Maybe you should risk scanning one of his books at a bookstore or a library. He's not really that coarse that often, but he does use a few words you'll never hear me say.I called back to tell her I was going to be out and about for a while. Not for long, since it's so hot. She asked where I was going and what I was going to be doing. I told her the stops I planned to make and went on to say I might be able to snag a fifth-grade girlfriend. She said sternly, "I'd advise you not to." I loved how threatening she sounded.
I confirmed with her nurse that she's being given two units of blood today. Her hemoglobin count had dropped to 8.4, so I'm sure that's why. Over at UAMS the multiple myeloma patients aren't given transfusions until the count drops to <8.0, if I understood correctly. I'm glad it's being done, because it should help her get stronger faster. Still no indication of whether she'll be discharged for home care with physical therapy or to a skilled nursing facility. Fingers crossed, although she definitely wants to come home. Definitely.
In the HMO's computer records, the denial of the Request for Skilled Nursing Facility said ~ Did not meet medical criteria. The HMO's case manager had reported that Melba had shown no progress from July 17 to July 27. The actual physical therapists' reports showed that not to be the case. The denial that came in the mail said a SNF was not a medical necessity. Those are hardly the same reasons for a denial.
It's been the best day in a long time for me. The highlight was Melba's rendition of "Doggie in the Window" -- especially her ad libs. She also walked 600 feet twice today, something I wouldn't have thought possible a week ago.
I'm combining this with what I put together after I said I was going back to bed earlier today. I stayed up.
Regards,
Mike
Why such resistance to a possible Saddam Hussein-Usama bin Laden connection?
I refuse to discount the information provided in the first post just because it came from the federal government and was printed in the Weekly Standard. Why? Because such a connection does make senseto me. Not all columnists on opinion pages (or posters we read here) care that much about facts or what makes sense. They can be quite happy as long as they get to use a lot of adjectives and adverbs to push their points of view — and a “strong word” such as “slaughter” now and then. My objective is usually to seek the truth; others have as their objective raising doubts. What could they think is so admirable about that?
After writing some time back to Holly J. Fackler, an Ohio journalist, who published a column that I didn't care for, she responded, “It's an opinion page! Of course it's slanted.” After my reply that “I prefer to see opinions grounded in logic, not emotion, and to have a basis in fact,” she said, “Columnists appeal to all kinds of things, reason among them.” She went on to say that she “didn't choose words carelessly,” andthat hers had been “chosen to raise some kind of doubt” since most of us have no personal experience of “their [the Husseins'] alleged wickedness” or “the country where Hussein MEN did their evil work.” She closed, “Most of life falls inthe ambiguous category, which is why journalism is such an interesting field. Eventually I think you come to hold the opinion that, really, it's almost all spin.” Not me. Her column certainly was that, filled as it was with strong words she chose carefully — my emphases added in the quoted material that follows.
… having a hard time getting my head around why the Hussein boys warranted any more of my time. I mean, the slaughter of the reportedly wicked brothers was not a triumph of right over wrong or good over evil … deaths were another “cowboy” incident resulting from this deceitfully justified military action … I can't help think that it would have been far better for us all to let justice be dispensed in a court of law … not necessarily one of our shining moments … our government is no longer of the people because the people are, as 27 blank pages demonstrate, being kept in the dark … Our nation bears huge emotional and financial sacrifice in pursuit of questionable goals and with increasingly questionable results … As a nation, the United States has become more like Saddam's Iraq than post-war Iraq has become like the United States … When probed about the Hussein boys' photos, another reporter offered a succinct comeback. The only question regarding our involvement in Iraq that matters to him is this one: “When will we be out?” Copyright ©2003 the BucyrusTelegraph-Forum.
The last e-mail that was sent follows. It was my turn for some adjectives and adverbs and strong words. They were provided for me courtesy of Scott. I can't be sure this is a first draft, but I know he didn't spend much time on it.
This material has also been sent out in e-mails on the Internet under the name "Betsy Trotwood." For those instances, the copyright notice © 2003 - 2009 Betsy Trotwood has been used. She was a character in Charles Dickens's David Copperfield. Since she was a nice woman, I have used the name for my persona as "the nice editor" at one of my other sites, PseudoDictionary.
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